Love cannot be bought, created, fabricated or invented. That is called imagined love, the illusion of love. Sadly, it never lasts, time and circumstance often change its light. Sorrow, and heartbreak are sure to follow.
True love is a gift of grace; it is has created you, flows through you. all you love. When you truly fall in love it is when the two connections in loves grace senses each other, recognizes each other. Many call this agape love, or soul love. It requires no effort, no control. It simply rises when the vibrations of two soul truly meet.